I have seen many people who can’t get their life back on track. They keep waiting for the right moment or the right opportunity to present it to them. As a result they end up waiting forever without really making any efforts to get their life back on track.
“Happiness is not something readymade, it comes from your own actions.” – Dalai Lama
I like this quote from Dalai Lama, in a very simplistic form it explains that one is responsible for their own actions. Lot of times conventional techniques that worked for others may not work for us. And one might feel hesitant to adopt non-conventional or new ideas to make things work. This is where your confidence and listening to your heart comes into picture. If you believe in what you do and are determined to make changes to your situation, then it will all work out for the better.
If you just sit there waiting for someone to come and hand an opportunity to you, that will never happen and you may end up waiting forever. Do what you need to do. It doesn’t matter if the approach is different, one size doesn’t fit all. Giving a complete honest attempt to resolve a problem is the key to success.